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The long-awaited Friend Compound laws in California

crmd

In a friends/family compound that is subdivided, you need a covenant on the original deeds that controls what happens when a member wants to sell their lot, e.g. the existing members collectively have to approve the buyer, or have right of first refusal to buy back the property, etc

Otherwise what starts as a family compound will eventually just become a “normal” neighborhood of strangers.

Subdivided family compounds are one of the extremely rare cases where you actually want a deeded homeowners association.

daft_pink

As someone that’s dealt with families trying to sell real estate owned jointly by several different families, owning real estate that requires all your friends and/or family to approve your sale sounds like a recipe for disaster.

m463

All the stories I've heard about families not getting along pale in comparison to stories of when the parents die. Game of Thrones come to life.

I would love to know how people have successfully resolved this for their families.

I wonder if this compound stuff might work better for 6 secondary homes, like in the woods for summer. Everyone pitches in to build them.

sorcerer-mar

That's actually how many of the most famous compounds emerged (like the "gingerbread houses" on Martha's Vineyard). Lots of summer camps that became permanent over decades.

potato3732842

>I would love to know how people have successfully resolved this for their families.

Have kids so rich what you leave doesn't really matter, or so poor they can't afford to bicker over it.

nradov

The best resolution is for the parents to sell all of their real estate (and other illiquid assets) before they die and move into an assisted living facility or something. Maybe it's sad to lose the family home but it's sure a lot easier and less emotionally fraught to divide up cash and stocks among the heirs.

xrd

My mom has owned a timeshare (which is a freestanding house) for almost 40 years at the Oregon coast with 5 other families. The families have all changed over the years and there have been small conflicts around what color the couch should be reupholstered but never any large conflicts when someone left the arrangement. It has been a source of pride that these families have shared something in this way, and a bunch of the kids like me have really benefitted in a way that we could not if we always went to a different rental.

achierius

On the other hand, right of first purchase seems fine: "I'm going to sell this to <X>, and if you want it you have to pay the same amount".

moralestapia

The problem with that is that, in practice, people barely have money to buy the house they live in and basically no one:

1) Has 500k just laying around ready buy a house out of the blue ...

2) ... that also happens to be an almost identical house next to yours.

So, 99.9999% of times it goes into the market, and the other parties feel betrayed, but the seller wants (or needs!) to sell, and things get ugly, brothers stop being brothers, etc ...

I wouldn't do it.

I also don't like the idea of having friends/family right next to me. Same neighborhood is really really nice, but same lot? Nah!

woleium

Sure, just give me 3 weeks to raise the cash…. Actually i don't have the money.

in the meantime the actual buyer leaves

chipsa

I think it mostly goes “I’m going to sell, it goes up to market on day <X>, unless you meet my ask.”

KerrAvon

Yes. Even when all parties are directionally aligned and fundamentally agree on everything it can be a nightmare simply to get all the ducks in a row.

But if I understand this correctly, this is just a way to allow for high density housing; there's nothing specific to friends / family here? A developer can buy a large lot and subdivide it to tiny, tiny houses. Doesn't sound pleasant to me, tbh, but high-density advocates gonna high-dense, I guess.

amanaplanacanal

I think it's more about making housing cheaper than being pleasant. Plenty of people live in apartments or condos, so I suspect there is a market for it.

amy214

I agree, I don't think HOA is good idea here, at least not, "the right to veto the buyer" part. This creates a whole litany of potential moral hazards "okay, I'll approve them BUT you do XYZ or pay me ABC" or simply someone with a chip on their shoulder or feeling slighted might jam it up out of spite. It's not uncommon to see low key frustration between neighbors.

It's also worth mentioning that in California urban regions, where such a law is most applicable here, the townships are fairly highly regulated to the point of being a quasi-HOA. Specifically, various housing developments may have bylaws and rules - no HOA - but bylaws and rules enforced by the local city and burned onto the property deed. A true to life HOA in Idaho or Wyoming, for example, may offer more freedom and flexibility than a HOA-free property subject to local government in California.

toomuchtodo

Not much different than private equity that requires board approval to transfer. As long as the terms are in the operating agreement (or other ownership structure agreement), caveat emptor.

(am member/owner in family friend's family farm)

crooked-v

> Otherwise what starts as a family compound will eventually just become a “normal” neighborhood of strangers.

That's explicitly noted as an advantage of the arrangement in the article.

randunel

It's called preemption, and it's a thing where I live.

A compound's members can have preemption to acquire a property when an outside buyer puts their money in an escrow for a contract that's already been signed. The preemptees have 30d-1y to come up with the same amount to purchase the property themselves or accept the new owner.

This way, property law isn't violated, because the seller still gets to sell their property for the agreed price no matter what others decide.

Pet_Ant

This does not prevent gentrification or changing the vibe of the neighbourhood. One can see that as a positive or a negative, just wanted to call that out.

nicoburns

The real benefit here is the increased density of the neighbourhood. That's conducive to community even if it's strangers that move in. Combine this with mixed zoning that allows for commercial property (things like cafes and grocery stores) and suddenly you have a pathway for gradually turning faceless modern suburbs into walkable neighbourhoods with amenities.

renewiltord

That’s fine. My home will be for my children to grow up in, but the world is big. I would never constrain them to this place. Once we pass it’s okay if other families make this their home. What sin is it that’s others enjoy it after I am gone.

walrus01

> In a friends/family compound that is subdivided, you need a covenant on the original deeds that controls what happens when a member wants to sell their lot, e.g. the existing members collectively have to approve the buyer, or have right of first refusal to buy back the property, etc

This sounds like reinventing the the often extremely long, complicated and onerous process of getting approved to buy into a coop in NYC.

I would hope that any real estate is subject to such covenants will be appropriately valued much less than traditional freehold / fee simple land.

anjel

Sounds like more fun than selling a co-op, even!

morsecodist

I do YIMBY advocacy and this sounds policy change sounds like a good thing but I am always struck that our zoning is so restrictive that when people come up with different styles of housing it requires a law change and we talk about it like the law change is giving us this new cool style of housing. What is really happening is the law has taken away this style of housing and someone has come up with nice branding for a denser housing style that seems less scary so they are able budge zoning laws the tiniest bit to allow more density, but only if it is in this cool new style that we are OK with.

xrd

The general consensus in everything I read is that it is easier to build in the south (like Florida or Texas). But, where I live now, Central Florida, the zoning restrictions are tight. Even putting in an ADU is a mess. I assume this is because people want to protect themselves from a double wide showing up next door. Sprawl is fine, but not next door.

I see a lot of radical changes happening in the American West. I'm from Oregon where HB 2001 (https://www.oregon.gov/lcd/LAR/Pages/Housing-2023.aspx) passed in 2023 and it and a few other laws now disallow any city with more than 25k people from blocking high density housing.

I'm really curious to see if these things will work and if the pendulum will shift. I hope so.

logifail

> To get this going, we had to buy 1 home, not 6 of them

You had to buy land for six, though?

This side of the pond buying (vacant) land to build one family home would run well into six figures (USD $$$,$$$ where the first digit is definitely a 2 and if you're unlucky it's higher still) - then you have to finance the house(s) on top.

wmf

They're talking about buying one lot and splitting it into 6 micro lots. That sounds ridiculously small to me.

crooked-v

The context you're missing is that zoning and building codes make a lot of lots ridiculously big in the first place.

wmf

I lived in the suburbs for decades so I know how big lots are.

Izikiel43

Depends on what your measure for normal is.

In Seattle, luckily a lot of SFHs with big lots are being turned into multiple townhomes.

kelnos

I think the idea is that you buy a house that has a lot that could easily support more houses. You live in the house that's there, and then you subdivide the lot and sell those smaller parcels for some amount to friends/family, who then finance the build of their own home.

So as the initial buyer, you're certainly spending some extra to get a house on a lot that's large enough (vs. a lot only large enough for your own house), but you're going to recoup some (all?) of that extra outlay from your friends/family. You're not financing the build of more homes yourself.

Also we need to be on the same page when it comes to lot size. Here in California it's common to have a house on a quarter of an acre of land or (much) less. You could easily build 6 -- maybe even 8 -- homes (1500 sqft or so each) on a 1-acre plot here, and no one would think that's unusual.

And sure, an acre of land in CA is not going to be cheap, but that certainly depends on where you buy it. But if you can get an acre for, say, $1M, and then sell sub-parcels to 5 of your friends for $200k each, that's... fine? Honestly that seems pretty standard here. But sure, in some places in CA you could get acre for $600k, or maybe less.

s1artibartfast

Yeah, I think the article captures that pretty well. The infographic shows 4 lots for 100k each.

In most cities it is close to impossible to find several lots for sale side by side.

Mountain_Skies

At the risk of sounding glib, the Detroit Land Bank has some amazing deals on adjacent vacant properties when you buy a property to rehabilitate. If a family wants to have their own virtual compound and can stomach the safety implications, buying a Land Bank house and adjacent properties would give everyone plenty of elbow room.

s1artibartfast

Im sure there are lots of places if location is not a concern. The author of the article is in the California bay area.

Suppafly

In my city, you can often find rows of houses for sale for $5-10k a piece from slum lords trying to exit the business. Tearing down the old homes would probably be expensive, but I think the city even has a program to help with some of that. Since you could effectively buy a whole street, the safety implications might not be as bad as initially assumed.

Workaccount2

The overall idea is pretty good, but I take issue the image that shows the $1M plot turning into $2.5M by building small homes.

This makes sense in a vacuum (maybe) but in reality, the areas that get subdivided like this will become less valuable with each new division.

There needs to be a feedback mechanism that prevents every lot from being turned into a bunch of micro-lots in a race to do what the image depicts before the area loses value.

awongh

Except that this is California, where real estate prices are crazy. And not just recently, prices have continually been getting less and less affordable for 40 years.

There could be macroeconomic forces that affect that estimate, but in Berkeley in the historical context of home prices it makes perfect sense.

Maken

Isn't homes becoming more affordable an intended side effect of this legislation?

Workaccount2

Yes, but you want a system that can dial in a level of affordability rather than a "rapidly multiply every home in an area by four" race to the bottom.

I don't know the specifics of the bill, but if it's a 2.5x investment cheat code for the fastest actors, it's going to cause mayhem and hard backlash.

meragrin_

> if it's a 2.5x investment cheat code for the fastest actors

It isn't a 2.5x investment cheat code. You're spending $1M for the original home. You're spending $500k on the construction of each new home. That's $2.5M invested. They would need to sell each house for more than $1.5M each for a "2.5x investment cheat code". If the original house cost $1M, how are they going to sell 4 houses with less land at a higher asking price? Even if they somehow managed that, do you honestly think sellers in the area aren't going to catch on?

bryanlarsen

If by "rapidly" you mean "over several decades". That's the scale at which neighborhoods turn over.

crooked-v

Most US cities are literally decades behind on the home supply. x4 isn't a race to the bottom, it's barely getting started.

pjc50

The constraint you're looking for is construction labour availability. You can't get millions of houses overnight.

kelnos

Not sure I agree. The extent of the increase is certainly up for debate, but in a place like California where we have a housing affordability crisis, packing more housing units onto the same lot absolutely increases the value of the lot as a whole.

Now, certainly each individual house will be worth less than a single house on the lot would be. But the value of the lot+improvements will likely go up quite a lot.

Also consider that the value of the lot, unimproved, doesn't just magically go up once you get approval to build your friend compound. To get that $1M -> $2.5M increase in value, you probably have to invest a cool million into building the rest of the homes.

alistairSH

Do you have a source for this?

From what I've seen with infill in my area (Reston, VA, outside DC)... infill might slow the appreciation of adjacent property, but rarely/never hurts it. Surrounding property (>1 parcel away, give or take) generally increases in value, because along with the infill housing comes more amenities (commercial/retail redevelopment).

And for the property that was "infilled", the per unit price might be slightly lower, but the value of the entire property has gone up. Say the land cost $1 million, got split into 4 parcels, and each is now worth $275,000 (fabricated numbers).

EDIT - this isn't quite apples to apples, since we don't have the same rules as CA - we just have a massive amount of infill development happening along approved "density" corridors.

mr3martinis

That’s absolutely not true. Higher population density almost always increases land values and it certainly would increase the total value of the land that was subdivided.

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michaelmrose

The goal of housing is not to grow or even maintain the wealth of the people who live there it is to to house people. If it should come about that A given neighborhood triple's in population and everyone's house is worth half as much I should count it as a success.

barryrandall

How many of these would it take to drive down property values in a neighborhood?

Workaccount2

How much more would you pay for a house with 1 or 2 neighbors instead of 4 or 8 neighbors?

There is your answer.

tptacek

That's what North Dakota is for.

colanderman

As someone interested in "friend compounds", I'm missing what in either of these laws enables that specifically. They both just seem to provide for denser housing generally. (Particularly SB684 almost literally just seems to allow subdividing lots which couldn't be subdivided before.)

tptacek

Yes, that's the whole subtext. These kinds of developments with multiple freestanding units on a single lot are generally disallowed by the previous generation of zoning and planning rules. Note how these changes are allowing "friend complexes" on lots zoned multifamily already.

alistairSH

I'm pretty positive about the ability to subdivide and build smaller.

But pushing this as a "friend compound" law is super weird. Are there really that many people who want a friend compound for their primary residence? Personally, I'd be hard pressed to think of more than 1-2 other couples with whom I'd want to co-develop property and even then only for a vacation home, not my regular house.

dyauspitr

Are you a churchgoer? Because they usually have a lot of families they know that want these situations.

toasterlovin

Yeah, exactly, we’ve talked about this a lot with friends from church and, IMO, this would be the best way to do it. It avoids the coercive danger of shared property and gives anybody the ability to exit whenever they want.

josephpmay

One thing that’s incorrect in the article:

SB 684 only works on multifamily-zoned lots, but starting in July, it’s getting replaced by SB 1123, which works on “vacant or uninhabitable” single-family lots

cratermoon

Why do I feel like this is going to supercharge short-term rentals like AirBnB and do little to ease the housing crunch?

bryanlarsen

This is for suburbia. There isn't massive demand for AirBnB in suburbia. There's such a massive shortage of housing that the small AirBnB demand is large relative to the supply of empty houses, but that's because a small number divided by a number very close to zero results in a large number. More supply will help a lot more than limiting AirBnB.

llm_nerd

It allows to subdivide lots down to 600 sq ft parcels. I can find endless examples in the core of every major California city, including San Francisco, where this is applicable, and could 5x or 10x the number of houses in single family areas[1]. San Francisco currently zones for a minimum of 4000 sq feet lots in RH-1 zones, and at least 1000 sq ft lot per residence in RH-3.

Should it or would it? Probably not. But this weird image of the suburbs vs "the city" (someone else used the term "metro" which humorously includes the suburbs, but whatever) doesn't seem reality based.

Doubly so given that the suburbs are car-centric, and plans like this are car-antagonistic. It seems to specifically exclude the suburbs, if anything.

[1] This law only applies to multi-family zoning, which in SF is RH-3. Regardless, funny to see people saying this is some low density suburb thing when many of the cores of cities have zoning requiring significantly more land.

dylan604

> (someone else used the term "metro" which humorously includes the suburbs, but whatever)

Not really sure where the humor is being found. There are areas where suburbs grew into their own cities that now blend back into the larger urban area they were once separated from. They are no longer suburbs, and it is now more than one city, so metroplex/metropolitan area is the term used.

AstralStorm

Instead of high density housing this will do slightly higher density in low density zones. You cannot really increase density by that much with it, but you for sure can cut the yards... And parking space.

I'm pretty sure this won't make housing more affordable by much. Or will even have an opposite effect. To build these houses a pretty serious investment or Amish-sized group is required. Who has that?

dylan604

> but you for sure can cut the yards... And parking space.

As if each of the people moving into the subdivided spaces still won't need parking. Now, you've actually increased the demand for parking. Where is that parking going to happen?

wmf

This stuff is only feasible in places that are served by transit which are pretty rare.

outer_web

I thought the post says one person buys the lot and then sells it to friends who individually fund the houses.

cratermoon

> I thought the post says one person buys the lot and then sells it to friends who individually fund the houses.

One company buys the lot and then sells it to its own subsidiaries who individually fund the houses. I'm sure there are numerous ways to juggle the finances.

justonceokay

Additionally, what happens after 5 years when the first friend moves out? I see this complex as a terrible HOA-in-the-making since neighbors will be sharing more resources. Reminds me of when I was doing factory work and living in a punk house.

llm_nerd

Yeah the "friend compound" thing seems nebulous, and one of the stated benefits is specifically that it can be financed independently and resold to third parties. So basically it's just higher density housing and pretty soon it's just very close houses of random people with some sort of weird condo fees for the commons (surely there is shared walkways, etc), etc.

wil421

You put an ad for more friends on Find a Friend Facebook groups or Craigslist. Maybe match makers appears to solve a gap in the market.

subpixel

You are correct - in fact the OG “bestie row” compound in Texas is already a glorified Airbnb.

What all of this will do is fuel vacation villages for rich people to use a little and rent out a lot.

njarboe

In rural Colorado there is a law that makes subdividing lots under 35 acres very difficult. There are lots of areas in the mountains that have expensive housing. You are allowed to build one 15,000 sqft house but not ten 1,500 sqft houses on the 35 acres. Would love to have something like this in Colorado.

Suppafly

>In rural Colorado there is a law that makes subdividing lots under 35 acres very difficult.

Those sorts of laws are often to protect farms and ranches from being turned into subdivisions are generally a good thing if you want a stable food supply.

scarecrowbob

Same. I am living on about 40 acres in the 4 corners area and I'd really like to put in more infrastructure. Currently I have a bunch of non-permitted (built in the 90s) cabins together in one corner, running off of solar. I'm planning on building a septic and a cistern for this set of buildings and a larger, more permitted house on another part of the property this year.

I could have 6-10 tiny houses on this property and not have folks seeing each other, and I have the cash to just put in everything necessary. As written, the codes are not friendly towards that idea. I am still going to put in some RV hookups, at least- those are much less regulated than dwellings. My neighbors certainly aren't in a position to do the kind of complainaing that would lead to more attention from the county, and I'm at the end of a long series of oil field roads.

While I am an anarchist, I do understand the county's need to prevent folks from creating dangers to themselves and other folks. I just wish that everything didn't need to be massively profitable for some investors before variations on codes and planning could be grante.

FooBarBizBazz

Can condo or co-op (legal) structures solve this problem?

fritzo

Where are those ten houses going to get water?

bmacho

Spring, well, rain-water, or water transported there on pick-ups

Suppafly

That doesn't really scale though. Once you have ten houses, you'll start thinking about how it really should be 100 houses and they should build a better road to service everyone and then you'll want power and phone and internet, and before long all of the natural areas are just subdivisions.

scarecrowbob

I just haul it on a trailer from the water dock.

simonebrunozzi

This type of law, and its consequences, are really interesting to me.

I used to live in San Francisco, but in 2020 moved back to Italy.

Now we like to spend 2-3 months a year in the SF Bay Area, but we would hardly consider buying a house (and renting it out when we're away).

Instead, a situation where we would be neighbors with a few "friends", it would make it much easier to consider the option.

diebeforei485

It would be nice if the yards could face each other. So people could basically have a large open space that is private to the residents.

defterGoose

That's what a Bungalow Court is all about. They're kind of a dying breed, but have previously been very popular here in LA County.